The Definitive Guide · Updated 2025

How much should
you really tip?

One page. Every situation. Smart calculator with context — because the right tip depends on a lot more than 20%.

Smart Tip Calculator

Adjust for service quality, situation, and split — get a real dollar amount.

Recommended tip
$11.00
20% · Good service
$66.00
Total bill
$66.00
Per person
Acceptable range
$8.25
$11.00
$15.40
min · recommended · generous

🍽️ Restaurants & Dining

Sit-down restaurants are where tipping is most expected in the US. Your server typically keeps 15–25% of their tips, sharing the rest with bussers and bartenders.

Sit-down restaurant

18–22%

15% for poor service, 20% for good, 25%+ for exceptional. Tip on the pre-tax total if you prefer.

Expected

Bar / bartender

$1–2/drink

$1 per beer or simple drink, $2 for cocktails. 20% applies for a full tab or bottle service.

Expected

Buffet

10%

You serve yourself, but staff clear plates and refill drinks. 10% is fair; tip in cash if you can.

Optional

Café / counter service

0–15%

No obligation for drip coffee. For custom drinks (barista skill involved), $1 or 15% is appreciated.

Optional

Takeout (pickup)

0–10%

No required tip for simple orders. 10–15% if the order is large, complex, or involves full prep.

Optional

Wine sommelier

15–20%

Tip on the wine separately or as part of the full bill. Many sommeliers share in tip pool.

Appreciated

💡 The tipping screen dilemma

When a tablet prompts 18%, 20%, 25% at a counter, you're not obligated to tip at all. These screens are marketing — not a social contract. Use your judgment based on whether there's real service involved.

🛵 Delivery

Delivery tips go directly to the driver — not the restaurant. Apps often pay base wages as low as $2–3/delivery, making tips critical income.

App delivery (DoorDash, Uber Eats, Grubhub)

15–20% or $3–5 min

Never tip below $3–4 regardless of order size. 15–20% for normal. Add more for bad weather, stairs, or long distance.

Expected

Pizza / direct delivery

$3–5 flat

$3 minimum for a short trip, $5+ for distance, large orders, or bad weather. Cash is king here.

Expected

Grocery delivery (Instacart, Shipt)

10–15% or $5 min

Shoppers do significant labor. $5 minimum for small orders, 15% for larger. Tip for same-day service.

Expected

Amazon / package delivery

Not expected

UPS, FedEx, and Amazon drivers are salaried. No tip expected. A holiday gift ($5–20) is a generous gesture.

Optional
Real talk: When apps suggest "0%" as the first option, drivers see that before accepting. Low tips often mean slower delivery — drivers can see the tip amount before taking the order.

🚗 Rides & Transportation

Most ride-share drivers earn under $15/hr before tips after expenses. Tipping is increasingly expected.

Uber / Lyft (standard)

15–20%

Tip via the app after the ride. $1–2 for short trips. Add more for a clean car, great conversation, or help with bags.

Expected

Uber / Lyft (Black / XL)

20%

Premium service warrants premium tips. 20% is standard; these drivers have higher costs and wait times.

Expected

Taxi / cab

15–20%

Traditional taxis: 15–20% is expected. Cash preferred. Round up in cities where hailing is competitive.

Expected

Limo / private car

15–20%

Even if gratuity is "included," additional cash tips are appreciated for great service, especially for events.

Appreciated

Airport shuttle

$2–3/person

$2 per person with luggage help. $3–5 for exceptional or private service.

Expected

Parking valet

$2–5

$2 at drop-off and $2–5 at pickup (or just at pickup). More for a luxury vehicle or difficult lot.

Expected

🏨 Hotels & Accommodations

Hotel tipping is one of the most overlooked areas. Housekeeping staff are often poorly paid and rarely tipped.

Housekeeper / maid

$2–5/night

Leave daily (not at checkout) — staff rotates. $3–5 in upscale hotels, $2–3 budget hotels. Leave with a note.

Appreciated

Bellhop / porter

$1–2/bag

$2 per bag is standard. $5 minimum for any service. More for heavy luggage or multiple trips.

Expected

Concierge

$5–20

$5 for basic recommendations. $10–20 for reservations, event tickets, or going well above and beyond.

Situational

Room service

15–20% or $5

Check if a service charge is already added. If yes, no extra tip needed. If not, 15–20% applies.

Expected

Pool / beach attendant

$2–5

$2–3 for setting up chairs. $5 if they go out of their way (towels, umbrellas, drink orders).

Optional

Spa / hotel massage

15–20%

Even if a service charge is added, many therapists don't see it. 15–20% cash tip is generous.

Expected

✂️ Beauty & Wellness

This is one of the highest-tip expectation categories. Many stylists rent their booth and tip is a major part of their income.

Haircut / styling

20–25%

Even if the stylist is the owner. $20%+ for a good cut. Note: shampoo assistants deserve $2–5 separately.

Expected

Barber

15–20%

$3–5 on a $25 cut is the norm. More for beard work or extra time. Cash preferred at traditional barbers.

Expected

Massage therapist

15–20%

$15–20% on the pre-discount price. If you got a Groupon, tip on the regular rate — don't penalize the therapist.

Expected

Nail tech (mani/pedi)

15–20%

$5–10 on a $40–50 service. Cash tips are much preferred over card — often higher takeaway for the tech.

Expected

Tattoo artist

15–25%

15% minimum, 20–25% for custom work. For a multi-session piece, tip at each session or give a lump sum at the end.

Expected

Eyebrow threading / waxing

15–20%

$3–5 minimum on any service. Cash is much preferred and more likely to go directly to the technician.

Expected

🏠 Home & Personal Services

These situations are murkier — here's exactly what's appropriate.

Movers (local)

$20–50/person

$20/person for a short easy move, $50+ for a full day of hard work. Provide water and snacks too. Pay cash.

Expected

House cleaner (regular)

10–15% or $10–20

Tip weekly if recurring service ($10–20/visit), or 15% for a one-time cleaning. Holiday bonus = 1 week's rate.

Situational

Dog groomer

15–20%

$5 minimum, 20% for a challenging dog. Groomers often work on commission and tips matter a lot.

Expected

Dog walker

10–20%

10–15% per walk for regular walkers. Holiday tip = 1 week's service. Extra for bad weather or emergencies.

Optional

Plumber / electrician / HVAC

Not expected

Trade professionals set their own rates and generally don't expect tips. $20–50 cash for exceptional work is a kind gesture.

Optional

Furniture / appliance delivery

$10–20/person

$10–20 per person who helps carry items in. More for heavy pieces, stairs, or assembly.

Appreciated

✈️ Travel & Tourism

International norms vary — this section covers the US + common tourist scenarios.

Tour guides

$5–10/person per half-day tour, $10–20/person for a full day. Private guide: $20–50+ depending on the experience.

Cruise staff

Most cruises add a daily gratuity automatically ($15–25/day/person). Extra $5–10 cash for standout crew you interacted with.

Coat check

$1–2 per item. $1 minimum even if there's already a fee charged. Have it ready — fumbling looks awkward.

Casino dealers

Tipping is optional but common. Place a bet "for the dealer" or tip $1–5 chips periodically. Not mandatory.

Ski resort attendants

Ski valets: $5–10 for equipment storage/retrieval. Lessons: 10–20%. Ski-in/ski-out hotel staff: same as hotel norms.

Tipping abroad

Many countries (Japan, South Korea, parts of Europe) find tipping rude. Research your destination. Never tip in Japan.

📋 Quick Reference Cheat Sheet

The complete picture at a glance — bookmark or screenshot this table.

Service Standard tip Minimum Generous Expected?
Sit-down restaurant18–22%15%25%+Yes
Bartender$1–2/drink$120%Yes
Café / coffee counter$1 or 10–15%$015%Optional
Takeout0–10%$015%No
App delivery15–20% / $3–5 min$3$7+Yes
Pizza delivery$3–5$3$8+Yes
Grocery delivery10–15%$520%Yes
Uber / Lyft15–20%$125%Expected
Taxi / cab15–20%15%25%Yes
Valet parking$2–5$2$10Yes
Hotel housekeeper$2–5/night$2$8Rarely done
Bellhop$1–2/bag$2 total$5Yes
Concierge$5–20$0$25Situational
Haircut / salon20–25%15%30%Yes
Barber15–20%$325%Yes
Massage therapist15–20%15%25%Yes
Nail tech15–20%$525%Yes
Tattoo artist15–25%15%30%Yes
Dog groomer15–20%$525%Yes
Movers$20–50/person$15$75Expected
House cleaner10–15%$1020%Optional
Furniture delivery$10–20/person$5$25Appreciated
Tour guide$10–20/person$5$25Expected
Plumber / contractorNot expected$20 cashNo

Tipping FAQ

The questions people actually search for — answered honestly.

Yes, but you can reduce it. 10–15% communicates dissatisfaction more clearly than $0. No tip sends an ambiguous signal — it looks like you forgot rather than that you were unhappy. Exception: truly terrible service caused by the server's behavior (not the kitchen) — $0 is then fair.

Pre-tax is technically correct and what etiquette experts recommend — the server didn't provide more service because your city has higher taxes. In practice, the difference is small (~2%), and most people tip on the final amount. Either way is acceptable.

Traditionally, no — owners set their own rates and aren't expected to receive tips. But this norm has shifted: many owners work the floor themselves and depend on tips like their staff. When in doubt, tip. They can always decline.

If the receipt shows "service charge" or "gratuity included" (common for large parties), you don't need to add more. However, verify it's going to staff — some restaurants pocket service charges. An extra cash tip for exceptional service is always welcomed but never required.

Cash tips are almost always better for the worker. Card tips are subject to processing fees (1.5–3%), are taxable and tracked, and sometimes aren't distributed until payroll. Cash is immediate, untaxed in practice, and goes directly to the person. Always carry small bills.

For regular service providers (cleaner, dog walker, mail carrier, teacher), a one-time holiday gift equivalent to one week's service cost is the gold standard. For mail/delivery people: $20–25 cash. Teachers: a personal gift or card. You don't need to tip at every service interaction — just the people who serve you regularly.

Yes — and not in one direction. Americans report tipping fatigue as tablet screens request tips at coffee shops and self-checkout kiosks. At the same time, awareness of low service wages has increased tipping in delivery and ride-share. The result: more confusion, not less. When in doubt, tip — the worker needs it more than you need the $3.